Someone I follow on instagram posted a picture that said “Your soulmate is the one who mends your broken heart, by simply giving you theirs.”
But I don’t agree.
I don’t think it’s right to be with someone if your heart is broken. I believe you have to mend your own broken heart, no matter what had shattered it; even if it’s not a relationship that broke you, you need understand yourself and accept life for what it is. If you believe your soulmate is the person to “fix” you, well, you’re not independent then. You don’t “use” someone else’s heart, that’s not your own happiness then. You don’t understand what it is to be truly happy if you only know the person as someone who healed you, you then feel like you can’t live without that person. Your soulmate should be someone who you have an eternal bond with, you understand the inner workings of their mind and know that they will not break you nor fix you. It is understood that you are two wholes who happen to fit together. That person should be someone who can aid you in the process of healing, while you sew together the patches of your heart, that person helps choose the strongest thread. That person gets a bandaid for your finger when you prick it in the process of mending. But not the person who does it for you, only you yourself can repair the broken heart to the strongest point. Only you know how the pieces fit together perfectly. I don’t believe in letting someone else do that for you, because if they put it together how they want to, they can break it even more easily and in the end, it’s harder to put together than the first time. Ya know?
This is random, but I just believe in finding your own bliss and not looking for it in someone else.